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BALANCING PROFESSIONAL LIFE AS A SECONDARY TEACHER AND BEING A HANDS-ON MOTHER

FILOMENA V. MANALO

Tuy National High School

Being a professional secondary teacher and a hands-on mother are two roles that are equally demanding yet deeply fulfilling. Both require immense dedication, patience, and time management, but they also provide opportunities for personal growth and the development of meaningful relationships. Juggling these responsibilities can be challenging, but the rewards are immeasurable.

As a secondary school teacher, I am entrusted with the responsibility of shaping young minds, guiding students through crucial stages of their academic and personal development. My job involves more than just delivering lessons; it’s about inspiring curiosity, fostering critical thinking, and supporting students in overcoming challenges. Every day in the classroom is different, with unique learning experiences, and as a teacher, I must be adaptable, resourceful, and empathetic.

One of the most gratifying aspects of teaching is watching students grow, not just academically, but also as individuals. Witnessing their progress, hearing their insights, and seeing them develop confidence in their abilities makes the hard work worthwhile. It is a job that requires constant learning, as I strive to find new ways to engage my students, address their diverse needs, and stay updated with educational trends and innovations.

At the same time, my role as a mother is central to my life. Being hands-on with my children means being there for them in every aspect, from attending school events to helping with homework and managing daily routines. I believe in being actively involved in their upbringing, as I know how crucial these formative years are for their development. Just as I do in my classroom, I try to instill values of hard work, curiosity, and kindness in my children, hoping to prepare them for the future.

Balancing these two roles is not always easy. There are days when work demands spill over into family time, and moments when motherhood requires me to pause my professional responsibilities. The key to managing both is effective time management and setting clear priorities. Planning ahead, staying organized, and knowing when to ask for help are essential strategies that help me stay on track. I have learned to embrace flexibility, understanding that not every day will go as planned, but that’s part of the journey.

Despite the challenges, the skills I develop in both roles complement each other. Being a teacher enhances my ability to support my children’s education, while being a mother helps me better relate to the needs of my students. Both roles are centered around nurturing, guiding, and teaching, and together, they allow me to make a positive impact on both my students’ and children’s lives.

In the end, being a professional teacher and a hands-on mother has taught me the value of patience, empathy, and resilience. While balancing the two can be difficult, it is also incredibly rewarding, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.